Anthony Ashdown and Jake first met in Sydney in 2015, following Anthony's previous breakup. Their initial online conversations led to a first date involving coffee and a planned trip to Cronulla beach.
During their date, Anthony shared his intention to become a surrogate father, which Jake reportedly accepted without being fazed. They discovered a mutual interest in 'nerd culture', referencing shows like The Simpsons, Friends, Star Wars, and Seinfeld.
The pivotal moment occurred in a homewares store when Jake quoted a catchphrase from 'The Golden Girls', a show significant to Anthony. Anthony reacted by jokingly blurting out, "Marry me!"
Ten years later, the couple married in Leura. Jake, who had completed a fashion course, designed Anthony's wedding gown. Anthony states that Jake is a stepdad to his two daughters and that they have a relationship built on mutual acceptance and peaceful resolution of disagreements.