Financial favouritism by parents towards one child over another can lead to significant jealousy and resentment among adult siblings, potentially escalating to legal disputes after a parent's death, according to experts.
Dr Fenia Christodoulidi from Relate notes that financial support from parents often has a powerful emotional meaning. Siblings may interpret differences in support as signs of favouritism, unequal love, or a lack of recognition. Even when parents have practical reasons for differential treatment, a lack of clear communication can foster misunderstanding and resentment.
Claire Webb, a solicitor and mediator at Family Solutions Now, regularly assists siblings in disputes over inheritance and other financial matters. She highlights cases where historic feelings of unfairness are brought up, particularly if a will states equal sharing despite one sibling having received more financial help earlier in life.
To prevent conflict, parents are advised to communicate their intentions clearly to their children while they are still alive. If disputes arise, mediation is suggested as a step before legal action, as siblings often find amicable solutions due to underlying family bonds.